damnit.
so both of you are fighting.
so both of you hate each other.
so both of you are so busy ignoring each other you dont see how its affecting other people.
but so what?

is that a reason to bring others into your fight?
is that a reason to complain loudly in the open where everyone can hear you and try to make them agree with you?

but most importantly, is that a reason not to consider others feelings?
i still cant believe you tried to interrogate the maid. i mean, she cried after that, you realise. and sheesh, i know you dont want us to know what you're talking about, so you speak in Hokkien. but the maid's a Filipino! for goodness sake, how in the world would she know how to speak Hokkien?? i've been listening to Hokkien since i was born and i still cant understand a word of it! and yea, maybe she was rude to you once, but can't you just forgive her??

maybe its just better if they moved away.